MEN across Warwickshire are being encouraged to talk about their mental health.
On a brisk Tuesday evening in Leamington Spa, a scene unfolds within the warmly lit confines of a community center. A group of men ages 20 to 70 gather, sharing laughter and focused conversation that belies the seriousness of their purpose. This is MENtalk, where voices once muffled by stigma and doubt now resonate freely as participants recount their battles with anxiety, depression, and the everyday pressures of modern life. For many, this weekly gathering represents not just a meeting, but a lifeline.
Breaking the Silence
According to the BUPA Wellbeing Index, a startling 50 percent of men have faced mental health challenges at some point in their lives. However, less than half have sought professional advice. This disconnect between struggle and seeking help highlights a pervasive issue within male mental health. A staggering 37 percent of UK men reportedly hide their mental health issues from partners, reflecting a societal narrative that often relegates emotional vulnerability to a sign of weakness.
“The reluctance to discuss mental health in men, especially those aged 18 to 44, can be attributed to a deep-rooted cultural stigma,” explains Dr. Samuel Hargrove, a clinical psychologist specializing in male mental health. “Men often feel that vulnerability is at odds with traditional notions of masculinity, which hampers their willingness to speak out.”
Warwickshire’s Response
In a concerted effort to rectify this troubling trend, Warwickshire County Council has launched initiatives during Men’s Health Week to highlight the various resources available for men in distress. Coun Anne-Marie Sonko, WCC’s health spokesperson, emphasizes the importance of transparency in discussing mental health. “If you are struggling with your mental health, please do speak up and let someone know how you feel,” she urges. “We are here to help you with advice and support.”
- MENtalk: A safe space for sharing experiences and professional guidance.
- Men’s Sheds: Community projects aimed at fostering connections and reducing isolation.
- It Takes Balls to Talk: A national campaign using sport as a medium to inspire dialogue.
A Variety of Support Systems
Men seeking a safe environment to share their experiences have several options. MENtalk, for example, combines sessions led by psychologists with physical activity facilitated by sports coaches. “Our approach is dual-faceted—mental health discussions paired with physical engagement,” says Mark Tierney, a sports coach and MENtalk facilitator. “Physical activity often serves as a catalyst for open conversations, allowing men to express themselves more freely.”
Further complementing this initiative is the concept of Men’s Sheds—community workshops that promote both camaraderie and constructive projects. Participants in these sheds undertake practical projects that serve the local community, effectively tackling issues like loneliness and isolation. As noted by John Marshall, a member of a local Men’s Shed, “Working on a project gives you something to focus on, and it’s within that focus that conversations flow naturally.”
Campaigns Making a Difference
Additionally, campaigns such as It Takes Balls to Talk employ sporting themes to motivate men to engage in discussions about their mental health. The initiative serves as both a resource hub, directing users to local mental health services in Warwickshire, while promoting a culture of openness surrounding mental health. “The irony is that sports have always been about teamwork and support, yet it’s taken time for that solidarity to extend into discussions about mental well-being,” comments Dr. Hargrove.
National and Local Resources
Warwickshire is also home to diverse mental health services, including the Coventry and Warwickshire Partnership NHS Trust, which provides specialized advice and support tailored to the community’s needs. “We’re committed to ensuring that no one feels alone in their struggle,” asserts Helen Wright, a community mental health advocate. “It’s essential that we create environments where men feel supported and understood.”
Local services available include:
- Crisis hotlines offering 24/7 support.
- Peer support groups focusing on male mental health.
- Workshops centered around resilience and coping strategies.
This multifaceted approach in Warwickshire seeks to dismantle the barriers of stigma, isolation, and misunderstanding which often characterize male mental health issues. By providing accessible platforms for communication and support, the county is carving a new path toward a more open dialogue.
As the MENtalk group concludes its session, the air buzzes with encouragement and camaraderie. In a world where silence has often accompanied suffering, the voices of Warwickshire’s men are beginning to break through the noise—transforming not just individual experiences but the very fabric of communal mental health discourse.
Source: leamingtonobserver.co.uk

